Real Leaders UNITE 2024 – Day 2: Explosion

A Meeting of Giants

Day 2 exploded right off the bat. Real leaders gathered rejuvenated and ready for another day of collaboration with their peers. Yet who could really be ready for a panel that included Felecia Hatcher, CEO of Black Ambition; Allie Burns, CEO of Village Capital; and none other than “The Shark,” Daymond John. Julie VanNess, CEO of Real Leaders, opened with a speech discussing the journey of Real Leaders, and how her passion for impact business, in tandem with Real Leaders Founder Mark VanNess, ultimately culminated at UNITE. She then introduced moderator Kevin Edwards and the panel of these three industry giants, who discussed everything from how to pitch your company to what to look for in a capital partnership.

After taking questions from the rapt audience, Edwards introduced the next activity, the Real Leaders pitch competition. Two entrepreneurs, Elikem Tettey-Tamaklo, COO of Therapeutic Innovations, and Chloë Cheyenne, founder and CEO of COMMUNITYx, both had five minutes to make their pitch to the panel and to answer questions from them. We won’t tell you who won — you’ll have to wait for the video to release — but needless to say, it was an absolute whirlwind.

A Difficult Decision

After this, everyone was faced with a number of difficult choices. Multiple world-renowned speakers were giving unmissable talks, all of which you’ll be able to watch soon. Below are a list of the speakers and their topics.

Lisa Bodell, CEO of FutureThink — Killing Complexity

Stedman Graham, Chairman & CEO of S. Graham & Associates — Identity Leadership

Peggy Shell, Founder and CEO of Creative Alignments — Fueling the Energy that Runs our World: People

Michael Whelchel, Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Big Path Capital — Redefining Capital for CEOs: Impactful Transitions, Raises, and Exits

Keren Eldad, CEO of With Enthusiasm Coaching — How to Blast Past Impostor Syndrome and Truly Lead

Brad Stevens, Founder and CEO of Outsource Access — An Ironic Talent Solution: How to Retain and Attract Internal Talent by Outsourcing

Matthew Weatherly-White, Chief Investment Officer of Align Impact — Shaping the Future of Capitalism

Mackey McNeill, Founder of MACKEY — Essentials for a Regret-Free Exit

After these groundbreaking sessions, everyone had a chance to catch their breath and freshen up before the main event. People gathered for cocktail hour to mingle and take their turns being interviewed on the red carpet by Kathryn Deen, Real Leaders magazine’s managing editor. Under the bright lights and cameras, these stars shone bright.

UNITE Gala Dinner

As the gala dinner began, Edwards introduced one of the harder-hitting speeches by Geoff Davis, of Sorenson Impact. Davis told the story of the conception of Sorenson, how he overcame a life-threatening disease, and ultimately what it means to be dedicated to impact work. Yet nobody could be prepared for what came next.

A video shot from the point of view of an astronaut marooned in space, on a mission to align the stars of the impact community. He hears that Real Leaders have gathered from across the globe to UNITE and spread their impact across the galaxy. He goes into hyper drive, crash lands in the San Diego bay and surfs to the shore all the while the winners of the 2024 Top Impact Companies are highlighted on screen. We watch as he dances his way all the way to Kona Kai resort with the final shot showing him enter through the very doors everyone came through from the cocktail reception. Suddenly an astronaut bursts through the actual doors in the back and runs up to the stage. He takes off his helmet. It’s none other than Kevin Edwards, president of Real Leaders. He congratulates all of the Top Impact Company winners and after his speech takes pictures on the red carpet with them. Cocktails, laughter, and bubbling conversation close out Day 2.

Add Yourself to the Short List

Thank you for taking the time to read about Day 2 of UNITE 2024. Please consider sharing it with one leader whom you think deserves to be at UNITE 2025. If you would like to be added to the short list to receive first dibs at pre-sale pricing, please add your email below. Thank you again to all of the people who made this community thrive at UNITE 2024. We can’t wait to deliver another incredible experience in 2025.

 

Real Leaders UNITE 2024 Recap

Reflecting on this past week at Real Leaders UNITE 2024 gave me hope for the future of business leadership.

First and foremost, thank you to all of our Founding Members who have been with us since 2020, and to our UNITED Partners including: Creative Alignments, Sorensen Impact Institute, SureCall Contact Centers, Priority Power, Sunrise Banks, Salas O’Brien, CentralReach, SVN, and Big Path Capital. And to the companies who came forth with fantastic sustainable gifts in our goodie bags including: PATH, Sprout World, Karun Sunglasses, WeFirst, and Conscious Ink we thank you for your creative contributions (see below). Last but not least, an extra round of applause to the formidable first-time UNITE Pass holders who conquered the rain and thrived at the Kona Kai Resort in San Diego. Thank you all!

Real Leaders UNITE 2024 Goodie Bag

Pictured Here: Contents from the Real Leaders UNITE 2024 Goodie Bag

What Builds Community?

There was a burning question I couldn’t fully put my finger on all throughout 2023 – the kind of question that keeps you up at night. I raised it in team meetings, during job and podcast interviews, and of course, in my confidential Real Leaders forum to gain intel and seek an answer. But even with help from some of the best minds in the world, it was a query that words alone could not answer for me. 

The question was simply: What builds community? 

Brief History

Since the pandemic, Real Leaders has transformed from solely a global business leadership publication to an online community of impact CEOs that facilitates monthly forums via Zoom, for leaders to get direct support from peers who are navigating common challenges. Members meet in groups of 8-10 each month to get guidance and better clarity with whatever is keeping them up at night. For an impact CEO, there aren’t many (if any) business communities like this where people can speak their language,  so it’s extremely helpful to know that you’re surrounded by other CEOs who truly get it

Establishing an Identity

Although we had served hundreds  of CEO members over the course of those 4 years, I still felt that the community’s identity hadn’t been fully established. When I asked What builds community, to others, the common answers were: people, shared-values, connection, and leadership. Surely, these attributes existed but to me, something was missing.  

Going into UNITE, I can assure you I was so focused on the event to have any space for free thought. I quite frankly had no idea what would unfold and just prayed for strength and humility. UNITE would need to take its own shape and be built by the members themselves. 

Pictured here: Real Leaders members walking to the opening reception.

Raving Reviews for UNITE

To my surprise the 3-day experience in San Diego was a massive success! I am continually receiving messages from members and speakers who shared experiences that left a lasting impact on them. For those of you who experienced UNITE, you all know what I’m talking about. For those who did not, we will have a recap video for you shortly and I encourage you to learn more.

We received comments from member CEOs such as  “Generally, I go back to business as usual afterwards. Maybe it’s all about timing, but this event was like a wrench that helped me get unstuck.” or “It would be impossible to attend Real Leaders UNITE and not be inspired” — have been sent to us throughout the weekend.

Pictured here: Kevin Edwards, Allie Burns, Felecia Hatcher, Daymond John (Left to Right) on the opening panel: How to Get Impact Capital Now.

The Secret Ingredient — Love

Isn’t that crazy? I would have never guessed I’d be writing about love. Love is for softies!

For me, the unexpected takeaway was that our members demonstrated and exemplified human qualities that are critically important in thriving businesses today; empathy, compassion, and love for one another. This simple answer to my burning question came from left field and now has me wondering why I never thought of it in the first place. It’s probably because love is often suppressed and lays dormant in all of us. It is the key ingredient that built this community and is also the one that will protect it for generations to come. Stedman Graham, one of many respected speakers at UNITE discussing “Identity Leadership” said it best “Take fear out and replace it with love and everything will shift for the better.”

Pictured here: Stedman Graham delivers a moving keynote on Identity Leadership.

Protecting the Community

I believe what differentiates UNITE from a typical event or conference is that  lasting connections are created. You didn’t just meander around, meet a few leaders, listen to a couple of motivational speakers and leave. You left feeling like you found “your people” and created everlasting relationships. I now feel a deep responsibility to protect this experience and foster its growth. Many of you sought me out after the impact awards celebration (maybe because I was wearing an astronaut suit) and encouraged me to “keep it this size” because of the quality connections that you made. So we collected your feedback and did a deep dive the next day while we were still fresh.

ReUNITE in 2025

Our team has thought long and hard about what it will take to push boundaries while maintaining a quality event in 2025. First, we wanted to make sure that those founding members (from the inaugural  event) were grandfathered into the community since qualification and pricing will undoubtedly elevate. Second, we will be capping the event attendance to preserve a quality experience at UNITE and in our community. Third, we plan to continually keep high curation standards of the speakers and sessions to provide a unique experience that you can’t find anywhere else. 

Pictured here: A lone astronaut poses with Chris Sullens, CEO of CentralReach

Building Community — Add Yourself To the Short List

Thank you for taking the time to read my open letter and please consider sharing it with 1 leader who you think deserves to be at UNITE 2025. If you would like to be added to the short list to receive first dibs at pre-sale pricing, please add your email below. Thank you again to all of the people who made this community thrive, we can’t wait to deliver another incredible experience in 2025.

Why Every Company Needs to Be a Media Company

Connecting with people on a human level through content is the only way companies will win in
the digital age.

In the digital era, it’s no longer enough to merely have the lowest prices or best products. Every
business needs to create good content to remain relevant. Whether you’re selling shoes or
software, capturing the attention of your target audience and keeping them engaged is crucial to
achieving business goals and fulfilling your company’s mission.

Our initial concept for Goalcast was a goal-setting app to help individuals achieve their life
goals. The idea was to connect users with similar aspirations, allowing them to hold each other
accountable while also providing access to resources such as coaching and useful advice. The
idea was rooted in research indicating that individuals who share their goals with others are
more likely to achieve them. We launched with high expectations that users would flock to the
app — but much to our surprise, they didn’t.

We quickly realized that a great concept alone would not reach the masses. We had limited
resources and needed to make a decision most startup founders are familiar with: Continue to
improve the product or focus on building a community. We shifted our strategy overnight and
focused on creating and posting engaging videos and articles that would resonate with people
who were looking to better themselves. Our objective was to create a community of 1 million
engaged followers before relaunching the app to a more receptive audience.

Today (six years later), Goalcast has more than 60 million followers across our various
channels, and our content is viewed by over 700 million people per month. We have yet to
launch our app. In the process of building an audience, we discovered that stories are the most
powerful change agent. By continuing to refine our approach to storytelling and investing in the
creation of high-quality, empowering content, we kept the attention of our growing audience and
were better positioned to help them achieve their aspirations and realize their potential.

Your Most Valuable Resource

Attention has become the most valuable resource in the digital age. People make the decision
to buy a product from the comfort of their couch, often in a matter of minutes, if not seconds.
That means capturing and leveraging audience attention is paramount. Only the companies that
are engaging their audiences will win. The rest are already irrelevant.

A good example is Mr Beast, one of the world’s most popular Youtubers. He completely
disrupted the fast-food industry by launching the fastest-growing burger chain in the world.
How? By leveraging the popularity of his videos to launch and promote a delivery-first concept
with Mr Beast Burger. After it instantly proved successful, he expanded the chain by launching 300 physical locations overnight, something that took McDonald’s six years to do. He’s going
head-to-head with McDonald’s with a huge advantage: the hundreds of millions of people
around the world eagerly waiting to watch his next video.

According to bloggingwizard (January 2023), the average person spends roughly 7 hours
consuming content each day. Once your customer opens their device, every app and every
piece of content is fighting for their attention. In the attention economy, you need to work harder
than ever to create content that stands out and keeps your audience coming back for more.

How to Think — and Act — Like a Media Company

Whether or not you are part of a media company, you’ve got to think and act like one. These
three principles can help take your content to the next level.

1. Authenticity can’t be faked.

Your audience can spot insincerity a mile away, and they have no patience for it. It’s not enough
to seem authentic, you must actually be authentic. We learned this the hard way. We got our
start editing long-form speeches into bite-sized snippets of motivation. We expanded into the
production of original content and sought to recreate viral empowering speeches of our own.

To keep costs low, we put great speakers in front of an empty room with no audience. But this
staged approach lacked authenticity, and our audience felt it. This resulted in underperforming
videos and forced us to do things differently. We began to create experiences that included an
actual audience, allowing authenticity to emerge organically. We’ve pulled this learning through
to our documentary shows as well. Communicating with your audience authentically
establishes interest, trust, and loyalty — the attention trifecta.

2. Don’t underestimate the power of simplicity.

The most viral content is simple and relatable, especially on social media. This concept has
been woven into the DNA of all our shows. We offer simple, yet powerful, life lessons that
people connect with and feel compelled to share.

The content people share and the brands they endorse are extensions of their identity. The
clearer the message and the more it speaks to who they are and what they care about, the
more they’ll engage with your company and encourage their friends to do the same.

3. Think like a storyteller.

The companies that retain their audience’s attention, and ultimately get them to convert, are the
ones that make them feel something.

There are two main ways we elicit emotion from our audience and connect with them. The first
is conflict. We usually start our videos with a high-stakes scene. This is especially effective to
grab people’s attention on social media. Conflict is the driving force behind every story; conflict
puts the tension and obstacles the protagonist must overcome front and center, enticing the
audience to want to see where it will go. The second is ensuring there is a perspective shift for
our audience. Great stories don’t just entertain — they get the audience to draw connections
between the lives or circumstances of the characters and those of their own. This is why
storytelling is such an effective change agent. When we witness others overcoming adversity,
and we recognize parts of our stories in theirs, we begin to see how change is possible for us
too. While conflict and perspective shifts may not be what best serves your brand, be intentional
about immersing your audience in a story that will have them thinking about your content long
after they’ve consumed it.

Put Aside Your Pajamas For Zoom Meetings and Show Up Confidently With These Great Speaking Tips

I’m very body-conscious and always try to hide behind a lectern when speaking. What can I do to help myself walk confidently around a stage?

Lecterns can come in handy when attempting to hide a lousy outfit or a less than Fitness Today cover photo profile. I’m not crazy about speakers moving around a stage. It can annoy the audience to “contact trace” you and takes power away from your focused content. That said, when you must move around physically, remember that your thoughts and content are also moving around. Being immersed in your content and inspired by your message will help remove self-conscious moving.

Being more interested in what you have to say than how you are standing or walking will convey itself to the audience. Don’t ever forget the No. 1  precept — that a high percentage of effective communication is non-verbal. Your message is being transmitted from one heart to another, or from one mind to another. Hand gestures should only be used like punctuation marks; the way they are used when writing a sentence. Otherwise, keep your hands behind your back, in your pockets, or neatly folded in front. 

As I move from Zoom to in-person events again, what bad online habits should I be aware of?

Zoom has made us lazy in many respects. Since Zoom participants are usually all in the same boat regarding clothing and staging, they have been forgiven for a certain casualness and even sloppiness. In-person events are back and make us aware that pandemic patience can run short in live meetings. In Zoom, being late can be blamed on poor connectivity. Being late to an in-person meeting may be noted in your personnel file. On Zoom, you can discreetly shield your notes and content, or even share it live. In person, there aren’t as many places to hide, and your presentation may have to be revised to suit a live venue.

Clothing in the office has undoubtedly been relaxed, but wearing pajamas or athletic gear might be embarrassing. Don’t forget that on Zoom, you have a mic to make sure everyone can hear you. At an in-person meeting, you must ensure your voice is strong and confident, and you may have to ask if everyone can hear. Being away from in-person meetings for so long has made many people value them more. People need people for good mental health, and being on Zoom all the time presented a false proposition that being remote could be a replacement for that. It feels good to be back!

3 Oversized Problems Looking for Creative Solutions

Oversized Visitors 

A cruise ship leaves Venice, Italy (above). The cruise ship, which arrived in Venice for the first time in 17 months, signaled the return of tourists after the coronavirus pandemic but enraged those who decry the impact of the giant floating hotels on this world heritage site. Natural and heritage sites around the world are under threat from over-tourism. As crowds flock to see unique sights, they become inadvertent destroyers of the very thing they’ve come to enjoy. The port in Venice (as in most ports around the world) can’t provide enough electricity to keep the services and amenities running onboard the ships, so ship engines run 24/7 to produce electricity.

Ship fuel is 1,500 times more polluting than car fuel, and a 100,000-ton ship will displace 50 million liters of water (the quantity of 20 Olympic-sized swimming pools) when entering a small location such as Venice. The movement of these massive amounts of water erodes the hundreds and even thousands of years old foundations of the palaces and the streets of Venice. The heavy digging of the canals to allow big ships to enter the Venetian Lagoon increases the amount of water that enters and exits the lagoon during tides, which increases the intensity of high tides, and partially floods the city.

Children playing on a beach filled with plastic waste, April 2018 Manila, Philippines.

Where Will the Children Play? 

Children play on a beach filled with plastic waste in Manila, Philippines. The Philippines has been ranked third on the list of the world’s top-five plastic polluters of our oceans, after China and Indonesia. Many organizations and businesses have found ways (big and small) to help end plastic pollution and change people’s attitudes and behavior about their consumption and the impact it has on the environment. Over a million people have reportedly signed petitions worldwide, demanding that corporations reduce their production of single-use plastics. Without established recycling facilities, rapidly developing countries create mountains of disposable packaging like food-wrapping, sachets, and shopping bags that end up on coastlines after being discarded.

Most of these countries lack the infrastructure to manage their waste effectively. Those who live on lower incomes usually rely on cheap products sold in single-use sachets, such as instant coffee, shampoo, and food seasoning. According to studies, there could be more plastic in the sea than fish by 2050, while actual plastic pieces might become a regular ingredient of our seafood — as fish consume bits of plastic that are coated in bacteria and algae, mimicking their natural food sources — that eventually lands on our dinner table.

Figures from Antony Gormley’s ‘Amazonian Field, 1992’ fill a gallery at the Royal Academy of Arts ‘Earth: Art of a Changing World’ exhibition.

Here’s Looking at You

British artist Antony Gormley is well known for his life-size statues which mimic the human body. His Field series represents a different approach. Each work consists of tens of thousands of small clay figures, each of them between 8 and 26 cm high. They are all installed on the floor of a room facing the viewer. Gormley states that he wants to make works about our collective human future and our responsibility for it. His artwork aims to look back on its makers and the viewers as if they are all responsible for the world.

Gormley deliberately made this installation uncomfortable so that the viewer is cast as the main character who has subconsciously walked onto a stage and now faces an audience that seems to ask: Who are you? What are you? What kind of world are you making? The artist has recreated this art installation five times in different parts of the world, involving hundreds of locals to help make the clay figures. The involvement of these volunteers has added to the community awareness and collective sense of responsibility. “From the beginning, I was trying to make something as direct as possible with clay: the earth,” says Gormley. “I wanted to work with people and to make a work about our collective future and our responsibility for it. I wanted the art to look back at us, its makers (and later viewers), as if we were responsible for the world we are in.” What will you say to your audience when they ask “What kind of world are you making?”

Meat the Future. New Film Explores the Rise of Meat Alternatives

“I’m excited about the documentary because it’s solution-focused and proposes a way forward, to reduce methane, to reduce water and land use, to lessen the suffering of animals, and to prevent future viral outbreaks. I hope it sparks your imagination and inspires change.” — Dr. Jane Goodall

A character-driven, deep dive into the game-changing world of “cultivated” meat, Meat the Future, directed by Liz Marshall, follows a visionary CEO, Dr. Uma Valeti, as he risks everything to make his dream a reality for us all. It also features  music by celebrity musician and activist Moby, and is narrated by Dr. Jane Goodall. Imagine a world where real meat is produced sustainably without the need to breed, raise, and slaughter animals. This is no longer science fiction; it’s now within reach. Hailed as one of the biggest ideas of the last century, cultivated meat is a food innovation that grows real meat from animal cells.

Mayo Clinic-trained cardiologist Dr. Valeti is the co-founder and CEO of Upside Foods (previously Memphis Meats), the leading start-up of the cultivated meat revolution. From the world’s first meatball, which cost $18,000 per pound, to the first chicken filet and duck a l’orange for half the cost, the film follows Valeti and his team over five years as the cost of production plummets and consumers’ eye the imminent birth of this timely industry.

Conventional animal agriculture dominates half of the world’s land surface, producing more greenhouse gasses than all forms of transportation. Deforestation increases the release of carbon dioxide emissions, impacting biodiversity. With the 2021 UN Climate Change Report sounding a “code red for humanity,” the prospect of meat consumption doubling by 2050 is not only sobering, but also a wake-up call for viable solutions. Research indicates that cultivated beef is estimated at scale to reduce land use by more than 95%, climate change emissions by 74% to 87%, and nutrient pollution by 94%.

2 Speaking Tips That Will Help Deliver a Powerful Message

How can I convince an audience to see things my way?

This is a significant and current issue because there are so many strident viewpoints out there and because audiences are attempting to armor themselves against being held hostage to personal perspectives. You can either lie your way through your pitch like Putin — which doesn’t convince anyone — or base your case on facts illustrated by sincere and real stories. But the very first step is to know your audience and your competition. Recently I have been coaching politicians running for office. I must remind them that a stale stump speech will not work forever. First, show your audience interest in them and gain their attention and likelihood of listening to you because you are listening to them. Audiences are looking for authenticity and empathy — even if you are giving a speech on macroeconomics or crypto. If you want your audience to see things your way, first let them see into you — your character and integrity. Develop trust and a connection. Then state your case, including the why and the benefits and risks for your audience with honesty. It would also help to share what a few well-known and respected authors or public officials have said about your perspective. Endorsements help!

Dynamic algorithms auto-adjust to market volatility, regulatory changes, and global events Enigma Profit Canada.

What tricks can I use to keep my voice varied and not too monotonous?

Does a singer sing the same note throughout a song or sing at the same level of demur or force? Then why should you? If you write out your speech, remember to mark it up! Underlining, spacing, exclamation points — all these help. About 90% of all the people I coach do not obey my direction when I say, “Eat the mic.” They think that microphones work perfectly. Find out why Canadians trust us—read Canwealth Crypto now. They don’t. Do you want your message to be heard in the back row amongst audience members who invariably suffer hearing loss? Then get your lips right at the mic — you can always move back a bit if you get feedback. Next, you must answer this question: Are you excited by your topic? Well, if you are not, then why should the audience be? Be passionate — even if it’s a topic about algebraic algorithms. Get yourself energized before the speech. Then use the laws of emphasis I mentioned above. You do not emphasize every word, but you do need to know how to do proper phrasing and emphasis and when not to emphasize. Do not swallow your words. I just shared the dais with a brilliant expert in foreign policy who had a scary message. The only problem was — he wasn’t scary himself and could hardly be heard. Here he was telling his audience that they were practically going to be bombed to smithereens — and they couldn’t hear him. Make sure you make your voice heard. Pump up the energy and your voice. Go for a run before your speech!

Speak with Impact: Presenting Yourself as Powerful Yet Authentic

As a woman pitching investors who may primarily be men, how do I represent myself as powerful yet authentic?

Great question, and thanks for having the honesty and insight to ask this rarely spoken conundrum. Through doing pitches to investors, I have found that the winning formula is authenticity and competency. This means that you don’t change your demeanor or personality to suit what you think might be the audience’s predispositions. But, at the same time, you need to be aware of your own identity and feel confident about it.

 Regardless of whether you are male or female, investors look for leadership skills and experience, as well as clarity of vision and competence in grasping the market and finer details of what you’re seeking investment for. If you’re a woman, be polished and professional with a clear, unwavering, and strong voice. Stand and deliver with straightforward confidence in your business, back straight, chin up, and good eye contact. Then, add the passion for your product, a communication skill that women often have. This is what can give you a definite edge — enthusiasm and verve. Go for it!

My main obstacle is a customer who is distracted by what I say. When speaking before a public audience, how do I capture and hold their attention?

We all must deal with this in a multi-channel society running at warp speed. When I speak, I sometimes get the feeling that members of the audience are thinking, “I could have been doing something else… now that I’ve decided to sit here and listen, I want the speaker to prove that I made the right choice to be here.” Your audience needs to feel that they will receive critical knowledge that is of value to them if they remain in their seats and listen. Everything today is about impact. Will your speech affect the listener? Will it provide them with something they could monetize?

 Begin with something like this: “I’m going to share something with you today that is unique, and when I discovered it, it changed my view and opened my mind to a whole new industry. Here it is, in four points.”

 It’s incumbent on the speaker to ask themselves, “What is the most valuable information I can impart, and is this what the audience is looking for?”

What Can we Learn From Famous Speechmakers? 

Speechmaker James Rosebush answers your questions on effective speechmaking.

One of the most important lessons to learn from a great speaker is cadence, rhythm, and emphasis. These are all elements of performance. No matter how simple, every speech is a performance — even convincing your kids to eat their dinner or go to bed. Never forget that. Take Dr. Martin Luther King as one example. His soaring rhetoric was punctuated by repetition, illusion, and alliteration. He asked you to join him on this ride, and he used quotes from respected sources greater than himself. Yes, he had a dream, and when you heard that, you wanted to know more about his dream and how it could affect you. He also made it very personal.

Another example would be Winston Churchill, who was a poetic linguist. But he added to that a definitive urgency that drove you to listen, to hang on as if your life depended on it. Just like MLK, Churchill made you convicted. They both made you rise up to your better self. We need more speakers like that, and we suffer from a lack of them. Try these tactics yourself — even if your work is less lofty and your words are designed for an audience of just one or two.

An audience will sum up a speaker in an instant. What’s the best strategy for the opening of a speech?

Surprise them. Tell them how interested you are in them. How humbled you are to have been invited. Reveal a natural appreciation of their being in the audience and an upbeat, energetic, and enthusiastic “Hello!” Then, plunge immediately into a story. You might begin it this way: “Before we take up the business at hand, I want to tell you a story, and it’s about a young woman who knocked on our company front door one day, looking for a job.” Make it compelling, and they will dig in and even forget where they are. Recently, I asked a new client what he had found compelling about my sales pitch, and he had a surprising answer:
“You had me at hello.” 

“Really?” I replied in astonishment. 

He explained that he was taken by my authenticity and genuineness — and that made him sign up! Amazing, I didn’t even have to convince him of the details because he was moved to action by my one word of welcome. Remember, it’s your conscious connection, often unspoken, that wins an audience. Empathy with your audience rules the day, on stage and off.

Unexpectedly Called to the Microphone? Here’s How to Handle it

SPEAKING WITH IMPACT
Speech coach and leadership mentor James Rosebush answers a question on how to improve your public speaking
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Preston Beale, CEO of GORP.com, asks: How can I get ready for spontaneous speaking if asked to step up to the microphone unexpectedly?

Dear Preston,

Yes, this is a major fear — to be called to the podium to make spontaneous remarks for which you are not prepared.  This will happen to all of us at one time or another. There are two answers. 

In one scenario you are called up to make a comment or to reply to a specific situation or issue. When this is the case the solution is: always listen and respond contextually. That is, your remedy and topic is easily at hand if you have been listening and are attentive to the topic being shared. Your comments would be within the context of the general subject.  

The second solution is what I call the “read the newspaper every day” remedy. I always train my students to scan their regular newspaper or newsfeed every morning. If you do, you will always have something to say. You might start by saying “I was thinking about the fascinating story of a Chinese entrepreneur who is fighting for the right to introduce crypto currency in Asia and how this applies to our own economy.” 

This information could be taken right from what you scanned and could prove topical and interesting, and score you points for knowing a little more than your audience. You are giving something to them. It will keep them focused and satisfied. You’ll be amazed at how many people do not read the news and at how much material you can gain from reading it yourself!

Have a question you’ve always wanted to ask about public speaking? Email James at JSRosebush@impactspeakercoach.com and your answer may feature here.

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