Let’s Not Get Back to Normal!

After decades of economic growth, advancement in technologies, unmatched prosperity, playing and praying, and having fun, a whole lot of fun, it seems as if the entire Earth is now standing still. Nothing is what it used to be. And we are caged, scared like animals in captivity. 

After so many days of bad news, from so much pain to so many sick to so many dead to so much stress and so much anxiety, many are shouting with desperation: when will we go back to normal?

Normal?

50% of the world’s children experience violence every year, and every 5 minutes, somewhere in the world, a child is killed by that violence.  

Is that normal?

More than 700 million people still live in extreme poverty, including one in every five children with 22% more women than men.  

Is that normal?

3.1 million children die each year from malnutrition while each year, 1/3 of all food produced – equivalent to 1.3 billion tons worth around $1 trillion – ends up rotting in the bins of consumers and retailers.  

Is that normal?

More than five million children still die before their fifth birthday each year. 

Is that normal?

More than 80% of wastewater resulting from human activities is discharged into rivers or seas without any pollution removal.  

Is that normal?

Seven hundred eighty-five million people remain without essential drinking water services, and 2 out of 5 people worldwide do not have a basic handwashing facility with soap and water at home.  

Is that normal?

One out of four urban residents lives in slum-like conditions

Is that normal?

We have the luxury of being quarantined at home, relying on agricultural workers to provide us with food, while two-thirds of impoverished workers worldwide are those agricultural workers we rely on. 

Is that normal?

By 2050, the equivalent of almost three planets could be required to provide the natural resources needed to sustain current lifestyles.  

Is that normal?

Nine out of 10 urban residents breathe polluted air.  

Is that normal?

One million plant and animal species are at risk of extinction; that’s 22% of all animals. 

Is that normal? 

Lacking social connections is as damaging to health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Yet, more than 40% of seniors regularly experience loneliness. These are our aging parents and grandparents. 

Is that normal?

At the current rate of progress, it will take 108 years to close the gender gap.

Is that normal? 

Today, 20 million people are refugees, over 41 million people have been internally displaced, and at least 4 million people are stateless.  

Is that normal?

31% of all prisoners are held in detention without sentencing.  

Is that normal?

Four hundred fifty million people around the world live with mental illnesses. And one in every 13 people globally suffers from anxiety, especially children between 13 and 18 years old.

Is that normal? 

Globally, around one million people die by suicide each year. It’s estimated that for every suicide, there are 25 attempts.  

Is that normal? 

Families are less connected than ever, with an average of 7 hours spent staring at a screen.  

Is that normal?

Businesses have 87% of their employees disengaged, and 19% actively disengaged undermining the company they work for. 

Is that normal?

Our social relationships are transactional and superficial. 

Is that normal?

Our connection with nature, the nature that provides us with air to breathe, water to drink, and food to eat is broken. 

Is that normal?

Please! Let’s not go back to normal. 

In a study published in 2017, pet Labrador and Golden retrievers were stressed just by walking into a room with an odor of a person who was stressed from watching a horror movie. It is suggested that because of stress felt from humans; dogs are having shorter life spans and more skin disorders. 

Imagine the diseases with which we have been contaminating the Earth, as with our every step of arrogance, anger, hatred, stress, anxiety, regrets, and tension we exhibit.

In the jungle of life, we have been directionless, either running away from fears or running after infinite desires. 

Mother Nature has been gently asking us to correct our course, but we are too busy to pause and listen. 

Well, now she’s had enough. 

Stop! Go to your room. You’re grounded. 

Can you hear a frustrated but caring parent say these words?

Let’s use this time to pause and reflect on what went wrong, and to find our guiding stars toward our existential purposes, our Purposehoods. 

Let’s find our way out of the jungle, and head back to the land of potentiality where we are meant to flourish.

Where happiness, success, and fulfillment are in the air. 

Where we can grow with ease.  

Where we live shared Purposehoods with our families, businesses, communities, and nature. 

Where we continue to evolve and expand exponentially, but in the right direction, toward a better future for all. 

Please, let’s not go back to normal!

Let’s create a new normal where we live in harmony with nature and all its beautiful creatures. 

Together, let’s create a movement to help every person discover and live their life’s purpose. 

Let’s unleash the potentiality of every human. 

Let’s connect in groups and communities around shared Purposehoods. 

Let’s aim to reach at least one billion people in the next 15 years. 

Together, we can do it. 

We can move with life to a better state of being with ease and gratitude 

as we Pause, Breathe, and Smile. 

May you all grow with ease. 

Join the movement on Purposehood.org

3 Steps on The Road to Happiness

You’re born to be happy. In fact, everything in the world is conspiring every day to make you happy.

The sun, the stars, the wind, the rain, the birds, the flowers and the trees. Everything around you sings happiness. Do you even notice?

We spend our lives looking for happiness in things we acquire, people we encounter and goals we achieve only to get disappointed as happiness quickly fades away. 

We confuse happiness with pleasure. 

Happiness is a state of being, a journey, a frequency you acquire as you live your higher purpose, what I call your “Purposehood.” All you need to do to receive happiness is to direct your receiver, your heart, and mind to it.

There are three simple steps to living your purposehood:

1. First, you need to find it. 

Start by writing your purposehood statement. It’s the anchor that will allow you to explore possibilities. It’s not complicated. Your purposehood statement is your answer to two simple questions:

a. The selfish one:  If I could never fail, what would I want to achieve in my life? 
b. The selfless one: In exchange for achieving what I want for myself, what would I want to do for the world?

Your purposehood statement states what’s in it for you and what’s in it for the world. In the days and months as you practice the second and third steps and reflect on your purposehood statement you will discover your True North, your higher purpose, the meaning of your existence, the reason of your being, the passion and energy that drive you and fills your life.

2. The second step is to answer this one question first thing when you wake up in the morning: 

For all the blessings I have in my life, what selfless act do I intend to do today? 

This is the most powerful daily habit that will improve your life, bring you happiness and help you achieve your goals.  It’s the price that you pay to purchase a seat on the train destined to your dreams. 

I will let you in on a little secret; you already do daily selfless acts! You take care of your children, your parents, your pets or your plants. You smile at strangers; you pick up trash from nature, you say something nice to your coworkers, you help others with their work, you inspire, you teach, you share, you greet, you compliment.

All you need is to be aware of your actions and have the selfless intentions to do them for the well-being of others. Don’t walk the dog because you have to, do it because it’s a beautiful being that enjoys walks. Do it for the dog, not for yourself! You get the point.

So, start by listing all the selfless acts you already do and just make sure to focus your altruistic intentions on your daily pick.

3. The third step is to share what you accomplished with others.

Imagine if the icebreaker at the dinner table with your family is ‘so, what selfless act did you do today?’ Wouldn’t that change the whole experience of a dinner? Imagine the impact it will have on your family if that’s the icebreaker, every day! Make this question your icebreaker for your forum, business meetings and time out with friends.  Inspire them and get inspired by their stories. One can’t succeed alone. Together, it’s much easier. Imagine people in your community, at school, at work, in your neighborhood around town, caring a little bit more, smiling a little bit more; it will change your life as it will change theirs. 

Here’s the surprising side effect, as people who share your values and purpose get inspired by your stories, they will also be encouraged to help you reach your personal goals. 

This is exactly how the world works, give and you shall receive. 

With these three simple steps, you will find your purposehood, gain happiness and achieve your goals. It’s guaranteed! 

Don’t delay it. Take the first step now!

My Purposehood Statement: I want to inspire people to live well, do good and be happy every day of their life. Therefore, I will live well, do good and be happy every day of my life!

To write your purposehood statement go to purposehood.org 

 

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